Smart Therapy® — Insight-driven depth therapy

Where insight meets heart

This therapy is for individuals who feel stuck in their inner world or in repeating relationship patterns, and want meaningful, lasting change — at a pace that supports real understanding and growth.

With over a decade of experience as a trauma, anxiety, and OCD therapist, I support adults experiencing emotional distress, intrusive thinking patterns, and repeating relationship dynamics. My approach blends emotional attunement with meaningful insight.

I also work with clients experiencing obsessive thinking patterns, intrusive thoughts, and forms of OCD such as relationship OCD and moral scrupulosity.

It would be a privilege to support you as you take the next step in healing.

 

Why do the same relationship patterns keep repeating?

Many clients seek therapy when they notice repeating relationship patterns in dating, friendships, family, or work dynamics.

Insight-driven depth therapy can help you understand the patterns shaping your relationships and begin responding differently when familiar dynamics arise.

Explore these specialty therapy options for relationship patterns:

Relational Reset™ Therapy Intensive

A focused, structured process for identifying and shifting repeating relationship dynamics.

Therapy for Modern Dating

Ongoing therapy for navigating ghosting, ambiguity, rejection, and attachment dynamics in modern dating.

LEARN ABOUT THE THERAPY INTENSIVE LEARN ABOUT THERAPY FOR MODERN DATING

For those ready to explore the deeper patterns shaping their lives

Additional Approaches

Depending on your needs and preference, sessions may also integrate Brainspotting or Clinical Hypnotherapy as supportive tools for nervous system regulation and deeper emotional processing.

Learn about Brainspotting Learn about Hypnotherapy

What you're experiencing right now...

  •  The same pattern keeps happening over and over—in your relationships, in your behaviours, in your thoughts—and you don’t know why.
  •  You feel stuck—in your mood, your circumstances, your habits. You want to break out of it, but you don’t know how.
  •  You’re desperate to change how you respond to life’s difficulties.
  •  You’re tired of emotional distress; you know you need to improve your self-soothing abilities. But what’s the first step?

Maybe you've tried some self-care, read a few self-help books, made some resolutions…but all those efforts just aren’t cutting it. Maybe you’ve even tried therapy before, but challenging your thoughts didn’t do enough for you.

Your relationships, how you feel in your body, your mood and emotions, the way you relate to yourself—you want it all to be better. You want a shift to happen. You want to break free.

You’re ready to change this now...

Hi, I'm Rebecca

I'll help you explore your past, your present, and your psyche to get to the root of your healing needs.

Registered Social Worker | Online therapy across Ontario
Specializing in anxiety, trauma, OCD, self-esteem & relationship patterns

In Depth Therapy, we look past the surface, going deep into your personal psychology and exploring the unconscious aspects of your mind. On this deep dive, you’ll learn to understand your unconscious mind, identify the underlying roots of your challenges, and examine the historical patterns that are influencing your life. Through insight, you will start to shift the patterns, behaviours, and symptoms that are holding you back.

I offer a conversational and personable approach to therapy.

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Specializing in trauma, anxiety, OCD, self-esteem & relationship patterns

First, we create safety and attunement. Then, we deepen self-understanding and inner trust.
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PTSD & Childhood Trauma Therapy

Childhood trauma and complex trauma can come from experiences of betrayal, neglect, or emotional unavailability in important relationships (such as caregivers or partners), leading to deep-seated feelings of insecurity and mistrust. Healing from trauma or PTSD requires a gentle approach, where you can learn self-acceptance and find a sense of safety while also building supportive connections with others.
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Anxiety & OCD Therapy

Both Anxiety and OCD can create overwhelming cycles of worry, intrusive thoughts, and distress that interfere with daily life and relationships. ‘Pure O’ OCD is a lesser-known form where unwanted thoughts (often around relationships, morality, or identity) trigger intense anxiety, fear, or self-doubt, even without visible compulsions. Depth therapy offers a supportive space to break free from anxious thought loops, build resilience, and find greater calm, clarity, and ease.
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Self-Esteem & Identity Therapy

Self-esteem—your sense of worth and value in the world—is a crucial aspect of mental health. Healthy self-esteem leads to feelings of self-appreciation, self-acceptance, self-compassion, and greater confidence in relationships and life decisions; by building up self-esteem, you can embrace your strengths and flourish in life. But self-esteem doesn’t come from just thinking more positive thoughts; it often requires processing painful experiences and healing from past wounds—work that can be difficult to do alone.

Insights for your healing journey

Smart Therapy's blog

Curious about therapy, self-discovery, or what healing can actually look like? The Smart Therapy blog offers reflections, resources, and education on trauma, anxiety, OCD, self-esteem, and more.

These posts are written to deepen your understanding of your inner world, without the jargon or quick fixes.  

Recent topics include:

Featured Guide:

The Emotional Orphan Archetype – Healing the Wound of Being Left Alone

Explore therapy insights, healing metaphors, and tools to support your growth on the Smart Therapy Blog.

Ready to get started?

3 easy steps to get started

  1. Reach out: and set up a 15-minute consult. Or, if you'd like to dive into therapy right away, book your first session. A consult or first meeting will let you know if our connection is the right fit for your counselling needs.
  2. Treatment for your unique needs and preferences: Get treatment weekly or every other week, depending on your symptoms, goals, and schedule. For focused, short-term work, try a Therapy Intensive.
  3. Experience wholeness, calm, and peace: As a result of our therapeutic time together, you’ll not only enhance your understanding of yourself; you will also experience integration, a feeling of wholeness, deep satisfaction, and a calm that you can feel in your body.

 

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FAQs About Therapy

  • Depth therapy is an approach that explores unconscious processes, emotional patterns, and the roots of your distress, not only the symptoms.
    • It includes modalities like Emotion-Focused Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Schema Therapy, and Jungian Therapy.
  • Depth therapy focuses on understanding the deeper emotional and relational patterns shaping your experiences, rather than only addressing surface symptoms.
    • While insight and emotional exploration are central, practical tools from approaches such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) may also be integrated when they are helpful for managing anxiety, OCD, or other challenges.
  • I specialize in treating trauma (including childhood trauma), anxiety, OCD, depression, and self-esteem issues.
    • Many clients come with overlapping challenges that also show up in their relationships or dating patterns.
    • In therapy, we address these through insight-driven depth therapy, emotional processing, and exploration of the underlying patterns shaping thoughts, emotions, and relationships.
  • Yes. Many adults continue to experience the effects of earlier relational experiences such as emotional neglect, inconsistent caregiving, or difficult family dynamics.
    • Depth-oriented therapy can help explore how these experiences shaped emotional patterns, anxiety, self-esteem, and relationship dynamics, while supporting new ways of responding in the present.
  • Yes. All sessions are offered virtually through secure video or phone. I work with individuals and adults anywhere in Ontario.
  • The first session focuses on understanding what brings you to therapy, exploring relevant experiences or patterns, and discussing what you hope to work toward. This session also helps determine whether the approach feels like a good fit for you.
  • Most clients meet weekly or biweekly. We can discuss the pace that works best for you. I also offer therapy intensives for those wanting a shorter-term or more focused experience.
  • A therapy Intensive through Smart Therapy® is a structured series of six extended therapy sessions focused on a specific theme or relational pattern.

  • Enneagram-informed therapy uses the Enneagram as a framework for understanding emotional patterns, motivations, and coping strategies.
    • While the Enneagram is not a therapy method on its own, it can offer valuable insight into recurring relational patterns, anxiety responses, and self-critical thinking.
    • In therapy, these insights may be integrated with depth-oriented approaches to support greater self-understanding and change.
  • Yes. Many clients seek therapy to understand recurring patterns in dating or relationships, such as feeling repeatedly overlooked, drawn to emotionally unavailable partners, or experiencing anxiety around rejection.
    • Therapy can help uncover the emotional and relational patterns underlying these experiences.
  • “Pure O” is a form of OCD where the compulsions are mostly mental rather than visible. People may experience intrusive thoughts related to morality, relationships, religion, or identity, and attempt to neutralize them through rumination, reassurance-seeking, or mental checking.

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